SUCCESS ENGINES: WINNING WITHOUT COMPETING

We like to win, and others too. But in competition, if someone win, the other must lose. We have a general thought that if we do not want to lose, we must win. The loser do not get anything, and the winner takes all.
Because of that, we start to build competitive mind. We started in our mind that we must beat others.
Just to be a winner some people will try anything, even illegal thing. We hear and read stories of athletes who use drugs just to win a game or race.
For a moment, they feel the excitement and enjoyment of winning, but, the truth always revealed. The sports committee finally find out that the athletes using drugs. When the truth revealed, the athletes will loose more than he had received.
What drive people to win a competition? Fame and fortune!. They have general thought that only by winning they can get fame and fortune.
But now I want to share how you can get fame and fortune by winning without competing.
Have you watched the Cars movie? At the opening scene, it showed how Lightning McQueen really wanted to win the race. He almost loose the race because of selfishness. There are the cars win that race, Lightning McQueen the Rookie, Chick Hicks who always on second place, and Strip Weathers the King. So they have to make another race to get the real winner.
Through time to get to the final race, Lightning has several problems because of his own mistakes. And through problem he learned a lot of life value.
So three of them finally meet in the final race. On the last lap, Lightning is about to win the race. The King is on second position and Chick on third.
Because he really-really win the race for the first time, Chick have made a decision that he will do everything to win, even if he must do unfair thing.
So he crash the King and make him has a bad accident. Lightning see this accident. He really want to help the King, but he is about to win the race. He has to choose whether he help the King or to win the race.
At the final moment, he decided to help the King and let Chick win the race.
Chick think that Lightning has made a very stupid decision, and he really happy about that. Of course he win the race and get the title he has been dreaming of for the rest of his life.
But the interesting thing is, even Chick win the race, but Lightning get the glory. And he even offered sponsorship from Dinoco, the main sponsor of the race.
We get a very valuable lesson from this story, winning a competition do not mean everything, there is another valuable value we should have. And if we have this value, at the end we will get fame and fortune. We learn that to win something, we do not need to make others lose, or to beat other.
This value also can be applied on others area of our life. For example, if work in a company, of course you want to be a manager, or even the director. Do not try to get that position by thinking the other employees are competitor. If you have competitive mind, than you will start to act like Chick Hicks.
Just do your best, do it with love and passion. Do it with spirit of excellent. Believe that there is POWER who will help you get that position. God is the POWER. If you do not get that position in your company, he will take you to another company, and it will be better than your previous company.
And if HE has to, He will open you a new company just to make you the manager of director.
So, start Winning without Competing.
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